The new-born infant does not have a conscious mind but only a subconscious one. Hence it does not have an ego. Its first task is to create one. This creation occurs within the first 12–18 months of life (after this period the ego develops itself for the rest of its life). It is helped and hindered in this task by its parents and other significant adults. Relationships and individuality are the principle means that the infant uses as its path to acquiring an ego.

Ego is your Character. Developing your Character is developing your Ego. Here is a list of characteristics that can help your develop a positive Ego.

• Perfect Body Language
  If you are confident- your body language is confident and relaxed; you look, act, sound like a leader. Learn how to develop confidence in you.
• Tolerant and Great Listener
  Listening is an essential part of communication, and it is different from hearing. Being a good and patient listener helps you not only solve many problems at work or home, but also to see the world through the eyes of others, thereby opening your understanding and enhancing your capacity for empathy. How to develop good listening.
• Conscientious
  Conscientiousness is the trait of being painstaking and careful, or the quality of acting according to the dictates of one's conscience. It includes such elements as self-discipline, carefulness, thoroughness, organization, deliberation (the tendency to think carefully before acting), and need for achievement.
• Insatiable thirst for knowledge but not over-displaying the intelligence.
• Honest and fearless
• Good sense of humor
• Caring and Responsible
• Ability to control emotions
• Likeable, approachable and dependable
• Good Judge, Calm and Composed
Optimist with a knack of turning shortcomings into strengths
• Good communication skills
• Creative and full of self confidence